He loves me, He loves me not!

On February 22, 2011 by The Life Chef

Valentines gone pear shape?

As the cards on the shelf get stored away until the next time love can be sold commercially, I would like you to spare a thought for those whose valentines dreams, turned into a valentines nightmare.

February 14th might be a day of love for many but according to statics apparently a couple of weeks after valentines day bar two weeks before Christmas is the highest time for relationship break ups.

With spring fast approaching our homes are not the only things a lot of us are deciding we want to clear out! If you fall into the category of a relationship spring clean then do not despair!

Love is like the seasons and sometimes a change is exactly what we need even we think it is NOT what we want.

The most important relationship however you should always be focusing on is the one you have with yourself. Rather than get into the blame game, spend your time seeking revenge or lower your self worth to get the person back, do your own internal break up and spring clean, what do you need to learn from this time in your life, how can you positively move on. Acceptance, learning and gratitude are a great part of self healing.

Start setting some positive intentions, invite some fun into your life, reconnect with people that make you feel good, spend the time setting goals for YOURSELF!

Go out there and give the world the best version of you possible and before you know it you will have another reason to be buying someone special a ‘Be mine’, card!

With love

The Life Chef

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